Posted on May 15, 2017 at 4:43 PM
A friend and I recently watched the movie Table 19 because we were looking for a fun comedy. Unfortunately, the movie was neither fun nor funny. Indeed, the movie did not deliver on a number of fronts, which is why I do not recommend it. I want to focus on a specific plot line that this movie employed—one that is common in movies and books—and that I find problematic. In case you are interested in watching this movie despite my warnings, there are spoilers ahead.
The basic plot is that Eloise McGarry, played by Anna Kendrick, ends up sitting at the table of “rejects” at a wedding. She was originally the maid of honor to the bride, but she and the bride’s brother, Teddy, broke up after two years of dating and she was consequently demoted from the bridesmaids’ table to the “loser” table, Table 19. As the movie progresses, we find out that the reason Eloise and Teddy broke up is because of an argument surrounding an unintended pregnancy. Eloise was upset with Teddy when she told him she was pregnant because he did not immediately respond positively. Instead, he asked her what she wanted to do about the pregnancy. His lack of enthusiasm enraged her and she told him that they would be ridiculous parents, which angered him, causing him to break up with her via text message. Because this is a typical Hollywood movie, it has a happy ending with Eloise and Teddy getting back together and happily welcoming their baby into the world.
Unintended pregnancies account for almost half of all pregnancies in the United States so it is not surprising that they are used as a plot twist in many movies and books. What is problematic is that many movies and books expect both members of the heterosexual couple to respond joyfully to the news of an unintended pregnancy and there is shock and discord if this is not the response. This is precisely what happened in Table 19. While some unintended pregnancies are wanted pregnancies (perhaps they are mistimed or the couple didn’t think they could conceive but they always wanted to), many unintended pregnancies are not wanted pregnancies. Just because a couple is now pregnant does not mean that they automatically switch from not wanting to become pregnant to being thrilled that they are pregnant. The dominant cultural narrative that all pregnancies are wonderful and wanted is harmful to women, men, and couples.
Eloise and Teddy are a couple in their 20s who seem somewhat irresponsible and lacking direction. They are trying to figure out what to do with their lives individually and as a couple. Given their circumstances, it is understandable that they may not be ready for a baby. Their inability to have a mature and reasoned conversation about their unintended pregnancy further buttresses that they might not be ready for a baby. But according to the dominant cultural trope, they are supposed to be able to pull it all together in order to be an intact heterosexual couple who are excited to have a baby. While this is how the movie Table 19 ends, not all stories have happy endings and it is important to recognize that there is a diversity of responses to unintended pregnancies.